I’m exactly the same Mrs uses the machine too, so I have a niche zero set for her to just dump beans then I play with the duo for me
She’s learnt to use a puck screen, to flush after use even clean the steam wand haha
Atm I’m on light ish stuff using a Pullman basket, the larger ones 18-22g so I’m dosing 22g, with a bottom paper and puck screen then with the gesha I have 3bar 1:4 - 1:5 at 96oC.
The grinders set at 10 so this gives me wide open flow and a small peak.