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so you will have seen infuse for 5 seconds or till first drip then release the lever, etc
basically you grind in a way that the bottom of the portafilter is sweating with coffee, then lift, depending on your model will depend on how long this is, the old l1 they said not to infuse for more than 20s as this can stall the thermosyphon, but who wants a 20s infusion haha
i found it best to give it 4-5s and then lift