brabzzz Hard to tell with the cam, it’s actually Bronze, so harder than the brass pins, usually it doesn’t wear…so might well be OK. For sure it’s the cause of your venting problems and may well be causing other problems apart from a notchy lever.
I think Bella Barista in the UK have rebuild kits, you should check their pricing as well.
I think you may well definitely need the number 8s, on the list (the group takes 2 of them), they are the lever stem valves…for that leak from the lever stem you either have not notced, or perhaps bothered to mention. If you don’t have a leak yet, you will soon.
you also need a top valve and vent valve….before you order, put the list up here and I can tell you if anything is missing.
PS strip your group down completely and take a photo of all the parts