In all the years I’ve drunk coffee, I’ve never experienced flavour profiles that follow the wine aesthetic of plum, vanilla, etc, etc (insert other Oz Clarke hyperbole).
What I’ve found are profiles that are more general like floral, acidic, etc that I can get my head round. It means there’s less that I can be disappointed by as long as I can taste the generic high level tasting notes. I also find when I’m roasting myself, that I stick to the high level notes as well.