I have another perspective, which may or may not be helpful! I have a Decent DE1, which I would recommend and would happily buy another if it broke tomorrow.
I was considering a similar group of machines as you were when I bought it three or so years ago, and wanted something that could make delicious espresso, steam milk, be small enough to travel with, and allow me tinker with profiling as well as be push-button simple for my wife. The DE1 is the only product I am aware of currently available that ticks all of my boxes. I would have jumped at a small lever machine if my wife didn’t also want to make coffee. The DE1 is seen as a ‘complicated’ machine because it has the option to be. Now I have a couple of different profiles set up for the roast level I’m using, I don’t currently do much more than push a button to pull a shot. I can do a lot more if I want to, if I feel like a profile isn’t quite right for a particular bean, or if I feel like trying something new, but at the moment I have the tablet happily in a drawer out the way.
I wouldn’t rule out any machine for the range of possibilities it offers, just like I wouldn’t suggest you buy just a hammer over a full set of tools. Just because you may not want to use them now doesn’t mean you won’t feel like doing so in future.
The caveat to that of course is if you are a 100% fan of only massive hammers. In which case I’d probably pony up and get a Strietman*.
https://www.strietman.net/
I guess it comes down very much to what your set of boxes are that need to be ticked. If my wife didn’t want to make espresso as well, I probably would have gone for a lever from ACS/Nurri, if I didn’t want to tinker with profiling, I might have considered an LMLM or Micra, if I didn’t want to steam milk, it would have been the Strietman. I think David is right when he advises that everyone will recommend their own machine, probably because for them
it best fits their specific set of needs. The trick is trying to find out what yours are and then getting the machine that fits them best.
*for coffee, not hammering. I don’t think that would be covered under the warranty.